Tuesday, May 28, 2013

A mother's love: Braving the storm

Their photo was one of the most haunting images in the wake of the deadly tornado that barreled through Moore, Oklahoma, on May 20. Associated Press photographer Sue Ogrocki captured LaTisha Garcia carrying her 8-year-old daughter Jazmin Rodriguez away from tons of rubble of what used to be her daughter’s school, Plaza Towers Elementary School.

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It was an image filled with so many emotions: mother and daughter, holding on to each other as they make their way to safety through a devastated neighborhood. It was a run for survival. It was a journey any mother will not hesitate taking for her child.

“It was a long way toward the end of the parking lot,” Garcia told AP. “And she’s a heavy girl. There were times I didn’t think I was going to make it. But I did.”

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Any mother will understand why Garcia braved the massive tornado just to get to her daughter. As Dame Agatha Christie once wrote, “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity. It dares all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”

The photo of Garcia and her daughter is considered one of the most enduring images of the storm. But for Jazmin, it will serve as a beautiful reminder of what her mother will do for her. “I know she’s always [be] there for me.”

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Sheryl Pouls
is a mother to two teenage daughters, Samantha and Amanda. More thoughts about parenting and motherhood are available at this Twitter account.

Sunday, April 21, 2013

REPOST: Why Teach Philanthropy -- and How?

Elizabeth Marquardt ponders on the idea of teaching philanthropy in schools. Although The Huffington Post contributor has misgivings about the study of philanthropy in higher education, she hopes that students who were taught “the principles of giving and serving humanity will find new ways to improve our nation, and make us proud.”

Reading, writing, 'rithmetic... and philanthropy?

Granted, philanthropy is not the first topic that comes to mind when thinking about standard offerings at liberal arts colleges. But increasingly, students studying humanities, social or hard sciences, or business can learn about philanthropy, and it's easy to see why. Philanthropy represents annually an approximately 300 billion dollar sector of the American economy. Americans appear uniquely to value civil society responses to social problems, contributing generously through philanthropic means of their time, talent, and especially, treasure. As observers since de Tocqueville have discovered, when Americans identify a concern their instinct seems to be to form a little group, raise some money, and make things better. In today's lingo it's sometimes called "social entrepreneurship." But the term philanthropy, the Greek for "love of humanity," continues best to capture the pro-social, virtuous thrust of the practice of giving and giving well.

And, like any virtue, philanthropy can be learned. In his recent book, Philanthropy and Fundraising in American Higher Education, University of Maryland professor Noah D. Drezner summarizes some of the research on how seeing one's parents give can influence later giving and altruistic behaviors in children. For example:
...Bentley and Nissan (1996) explored how primary school students learn philanthropy and altruistic behavior. The study suggests that witnessing an influential adult (parent or guardian, teacher, religious or youth organization leader) engage in acts of philanthropy is most effective in passing along the importance of helping others. Schervish and Havens (1997), using the 1992 Survey of Giving and Volunteering in the United States, found that witnessing at least one parent or guardian engage in volunteer work, watching a family member help others, or being the recipient of help while young was associated with higher levels of giving as an adult. Hunt (1990) referred to it as "modeling theory." This teachable moment is intensified when it is coupled with a discussion about the importance of such actions (Bar-Tal, 1976; Bentley and Nissan, 1996). (p. 59)
If giving is teachable, then the college years represent a tremendous opportunity to instill such behaviors in the next generation -- and the need is arguably greater than ever. In the future, all of us are going to have to be more savvy about philanthropy. As taxpayers are increasingly less willing to fund public giving, everyone in the non-profit world has to get out, beat the bushes, and make the case for why we are deserving of funds. As globalization ramps up competition, many of us are now competing with the best from around the world. Finally, the rise in social media fuels a need for us to be vivid, authentic tellers of our own story. The key to successful philanthropy is story, that is, understanding and telling the story of what the problem is, why the giver is the best leader to respond to the problem, and why the recipient is the best candidate for solving the problem on the ground.

Earlier this month, the first national school for philanthropy -- at Indiana University -- was renamed in honor of the Lilly family and the Lilly Endowment, a leading American foundation that was established 75 years ago. But another, less well-known foundation has also been propelling the study of philanthropy in higher education into the news: the Once Upon a Time Foundation. As the Yale Daily News reported, the Forth Worth, Texas foundation has been approaching professors at elite universities and providing 50-100,000 dollars for students to give away to charities of their choice. Professors at Harvard, Northwestern, University of Chicago, University of Pennsylvania, University of Michigan, Yale, Stanford, University of Texas, University of Virginia, Princeton and elsewhere have incorporated the philanthropic activity of students into their class syllabi, using foundation funds to equip their students to learn how to give money away.

When I recently stumbled upon articles about these activities, I thought I was misreading. I had assumed that students in a class about philanthropy would be, well, learning how to get some philanthropy! I had imagined that, in addition to learning the history, theory, and social science of philanthropy, students might also study practical skills such as grant writing, foundation and prospect research, how to make a three minute pitch to a potential donor, or even the timeless and endangered art of writing a handwritten thank-you note.

After all, the likelihood that today's college students will become philanthropists any time soon is slim. Unless their families have already established foundations, or they get a rare, coveted job in the foundation world, and especially given increasing economic inequality and concentration of wealth, it's far more likely that in the near future today's students will be grant seekers rather than grant givers. And, there is something about college students giving away money they have not earned that seems a little, well, offensive. Giving away your own money, which you have often earned through sweat, risk, long hours, and sacrifices of other interests you might wish to have pursued (such as being with your family, or having more leisure), is much harder than giving away money someone has handed to you. What, realistically, are these students learning?

Time will tell. Perhaps, like the student-led "Pennies for Patients" campaign at my children's elementary school, graduating seniors who have studied philanthropy will find creative ways to pool even limited resources to bring about social change. Perhaps they will be like the Binghamton University graduates who this month won 10,000 dollars and gave it to a community health program they learned about when taking professor David Campbell's "Philanthropy in Civil Society" course. Or, perhaps they'll become disgruntled, stymied, would-be philanthropists, wondering why after slaving forty hours in a cubicle no one is giving them free money so they can be lauded leaders in their communities.

I am willing to believe that my skepticism is for naught. I am more than willing to believe that today's students, taught the principles of giving and serving humanity, and even given a chance to take those principles out for a spin thanks to the generosity of a Texas-based foundation, will find new ways to improve our nation, surprise us, and make us proud.


Sheryl Pouls is a mother and philanthropist living in Gladwyne, Pennsylvania. Subscribe to this Facebook page for more updates on giving and philanthropy.



Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Before ‘Gatsby’: Leonardo DiCaprio and his philanthropy

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There are tons of reasons why everybody should be excited about the filmization of F. Scott Fitzgerald's 1925 novel The Great Gatsby despite it having been made into a film for four times. First off, it's the newest film version since David Merrick's 1974 failed attempt to give life to Jay Gatsby; secondly, it was directed by the conscientious filmmaker behind The Red Curtain Trilogy, Baz Luhrmann; and lastly—or more importantly—inasmuch as it is the much-awaited quick comeback of Leonardo DiCaprio from the just recently premiered Django Unchained.

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But before Gatsby, along with reading the Lost Generation's foremost member's novel, knowing the guy who characterized from book to celluloid the self-made American teenager Jay Gatsby a little bit deeper is a good start in understanding and scrutinizing his anticipated performance.

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Off-screen, DiCaprio’s life is opposite to that of Gatsby. He's not linked to any form of prohibition, and he uses his money for matters productive and charitable—he is a philanthropist. His humanitarian endeavors are like a vast expanse of good works, for he is involved with many causes such as anti-AIDS campaign, environmental activism, and human rights and anti-poverty crusade, et al.
And having knowledge of his philanthropy is important, for he is known for accepting roles that are close to his heart, characters who have the capacity to deliver a positive message.

Sheryl Pouls is a philanthropist residing in Gladwyne, Pennsylvania. This Facebook page offers updates on charity and philanthropy.

Monday, March 4, 2013

How Nika Kljun killed it in The X Factor

A particularly enticing episode of The X Factor involves the casting of a handful of elite dancers from the world over. A not-so-surprising standout was Nika Kljun, the object of most appreciative praise in the comments section of the viral video of the auditions.

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Clad in a loose cropped shirt, a fringed skirt, and killer heels, the Slovenian dancer/choreographer edged out the competition with striking accents to her dance and high-energy moves that washed out her fellow dancers into an inconsequential chorus. Her flowing platinum blond hair was tossed to the beat, proving that, as a professional dancer, every bit of her dances.

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Auditioning for The X Factor may be superfluous by the standards of her personal success. Dancers are often painted to the background of high-wattage performances. They are supporting roles next to Michael Jackson, Justin Timberlake, or Madonna. Kljun, however, became famous for her dancing. She has been dancing since the tender age of three, picking up the fish-in-water feel of the craft from her parents’ dance school in her hometown. Her range is defined by a lifetime of exposure --- ballroom, Latin, jazz, and tap all culminated in a good kinesthetic feel for hiphop and other modern dances.

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The global turn of her fame is attributed to her endorsement of Nike, icing on her weightier stints in shows such as The X Factor and Dancing with the Stars. She has also worked with best-selling artists such as Jennifer Lopez, Beyonce, Pitbull, and T-Pain.

Sheryl Pouls is a mother of two who is also a devoted fan of The X Factor. Learn more about her favorite TV series through this Twitter page.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

What charities and the world biomes have in common


There are currently thousands of registered charity organizations worldwide, which support specific causes, and they anchor on the help of people, such as ordinary individuals, like homemaker Sheryl Pouls, and high-profile celebrities like singer Shakira, who are able to relate with what they are advocating. Charities range from those that want to improve the lives of the poor, to those that aim to save the deteriorating environment.

While philanthropy is mostly about giving material help to those who are in need, it has a scope that encompasses many facets of life and the society. Just like world biomes, charities need a concrete support system, large life network, and renewable resources to maintain or expand their altruistic activities.

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Tropical rainforest biomes provide an abundant supply of oxygen, water, and food supply for its inhabitants. The same level of resource abundance is needed by charities. Especially in third world nations where financial help mainly comes from foreign aid, the haunt for generous donors is very difficult.

Charities also need a “fertile” ground to grow and expand their networks. Much like the prairie biome, where the soil quality is among the richest in the world, plentiful harvest is never a problem. However, this type of environment lacks enough water supply. It needs appropriate artificial irrigation to evenly distribute water in all of its farms. Charities need this kind of “irrigation,” particularly from government leaders and wealthy businessmen whom they are most dependent with.

Whether a charity is as rich as the Palawan rainforests in the Philippines or as financially challenged as the dry deserts of Atacama in Chile, they are all aiming for one noble cause: to save humanity.

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